Why do Dumpers Contact the Dumpee in 2024

Loyalty is rare and not all the promises made are meant to be true. Fake relationships hurt but when someone dumps you suddenly, it is painful beyond imagination.

A person keeps asking himself if he was the one at fault. Guess what? some dumpers still dare to come back and contact the dumpee again.

Why do dumpers contact the Dumpee? 

When you have been in a relationship with the most sincere intentions, it’s really hard to say goodbye. You really can’t afford that same person contacting and hurting you again.  Some goodbyes are important.

Leave those bad memories behind you and don’t let them ruin your future. Forget and move forward because the more you will think,  the worse it will tear your soul and heart.

If a person has loved you,  they shouldn’t have ever let you go. Now if they are trying to make contact again,  here are few possible options

What Makes a dumper change their Mind

They know your emotional weaknesses 

You were in a relationship with them so they know you very close. Most people come back after ditching just to use your physical and emotional energy again because they know your emotional weaknesses.

They are well aware of your switches and know which one to turn on when it’s their convenience.

Never let these people find an opportunity to hurt you again. Just kick them and shut your doors forever.

You were too much invested in the relationship

When someone dumps you, they don’t realize at first that you were there with your full potential. As soon as they come to know this,  they try to contact you again.

They think that even if they are not available but your potential still exists. So they will try to direct you according to their wishes. All they deserve is a “no” signboard from your side.

Don’t indulge yourself in a painful journey again. They are only back till you keep on investing and trust us human beings are not investment machines. Relationships demand two-way energy. They will destroy your peace and health.

They think you are dumb af

When someone ditches you, they underestimate your power. Mistreating someone’s pure intentions is not justified but dumpers think they can again do this and that too with your consent this time.

What the hell are they thinking about you? Do they take you like someone so much unimportant? How dare them to think that you will welcome them back with open arms after they did this to you?

Talking about the first time, you were in love.  Now show them you are not as dumb as they perceive about you.

They are genuinely sorry

Ok!  We understand anyone can regret their bad decisions but how they affected other people can never be changed. Even if they are genuinely sorry about their actions, you cannot be the same person again. Betrayal teaches and transforms you and many times in a better way.

If you are a hundred percent sure they regret it truly, even then don’t go for another deal with them. Once a cheater always a cheater. Although they may have plans to stay loyal, you will be insecure forever.  So why waste energy and time on a lost cause?

In short, for whatever reason, the dumper is trying to contact you again, don’t pay heed. Close your doors and don’t let that traumatic experience haunt you again.